***
When the dog bites, when the bee stings,
when I’m feeling sad,
I simply remember my favorite things,
and then I don’t feel so bad.
~ My favorite things
*
Darby walked in and sheepishly handed me a piece of paper. “I wrote a couple of lists,” she said. “I thought you’d like to see them. It was just some stuff I really had to say.”
I took the sheet from her and began to read.

I love math!
I love science!
I love art!
I love my family!
I love pink!
I love me!
I love cursive!
“Aw, that’s great Darb,” I said, pulling her into a hug. “And we love you too!”
“There’s some more on the other side,” she said, looking down at her feet. “Some stuff I don’t like at all.”
I turned it over and started reading.
I don’t like Dora.
I don’t like fevers.
I don’t like bullys.
I don’t like enemys.
I don’t like too much homework.
I don’t like too much rain.
I don’t lke autism.
I don’t like oily popcorn.
Aw, hell, baby. Mama’s right there with ya. All the way down to the oily popcorn.
***
Ed note .. Ok, so not to name names, but I know that there are a few restless natives out there who are eagerly awaiting the resolution to Thursday’s post. I promise it’s coming, April. (Oops, did that slip out?) There just weren’t enough hours in a day this weekend (are there ever?) to write a blessed thing, so I hope you’ll remain patient with me as I hobble it together.
~ The Management
My favorite part about this whole thing is the sidebar: “true feelings that I must get out.” Truly an amazing young lady! xoxo
Comment by Marie — November 16, 2009 @ 8:03 am |
A writer in the making! Love the lists.
Comment by Niksmom — November 16, 2009 @ 8:59 am |
I agree with Marie–I love the “true feelings that must get out” on the side.
Comment by therocchronicles — November 16, 2009 @ 8:59 am |
My favorite: “I love ME”. That, my friend, is a miracle. I would give anything for one of my kids to feel that way.
Comment by mama edge — November 16, 2009 @ 9:53 am |
May Darby alway have the courage to express her true feelings and may she always find a iistening ear & heart…
Comment by Petra — November 16, 2009 @ 10:33 am |
“I love ME” = awesome. There is nothing we work harder on with our daughter than self-esteem. Looks like someone is getting the job done in that category.
Comment by Russ — November 16, 2009 @ 10:39 am |
Yes, the “I love me” trumps all, but I agree wholeheartedly on the entire list.
xo
Comment by pixiemama — November 16, 2009 @ 10:46 am |
Aww, Darby.
Somehow it’s just incredibly touching to me that each list has a biggie at second-to-last place (I love me! / I don’t like autism), and then the tension lifts with the final entry.
Maybe we can feed the oily popcorn to the bullies.
Comment by JoyMama — November 16, 2009 @ 11:22 am |
Awww….that other side broke my heart. Sweet baby.
Comment by sunny — November 16, 2009 @ 11:32 am |
That is one well adjusted young lady!
Comment by Carrie Link — November 16, 2009 @ 11:46 am |
LOL! Things I do not like:
“I don’t like waiting for good news.”
BUT even more . . .
“I don’t like working mothers feeling pressured to do anything other than sharing time with their children on weekends.”
xox April (yes, that April)
Comment by April — November 16, 2009 @ 1:08 pm |
you don’t like Dora???
Comment by rhemashope — November 16, 2009 @ 1:31 pm |
Girlfriend’s got good taste.
Comment by Meredith — November 16, 2009 @ 2:01 pm |
I love how she’s expressing her emotions through writing!
Comment by Tanya @ TeenAutism — November 16, 2009 @ 3:30 pm |
i can’t believe she has math at the top of the “like” list. she is way, way too smart. you need to get her to watch way more television, slow down her intellectual growth, she’s on a path of global dominance. today, likes math. tomorrow, president darby.
Comment by M — November 16, 2009 @ 7:17 pm |
I am a firm believe that Darby will use her powers for good.
Comment by Erika — November 16, 2009 @ 7:37 pm |
We have an older sib who is also a nonfan of Dora as well. I think Darby was quite restrained and appropriate–she didn’t use the “h” word. Sam would have.
Comment by Erika — November 16, 2009 @ 7:36 pm |
What an amazing kid. Such an ability to express herself. It’s so obvious that she feels secure and knows she is loved, valued and accepted. Kudos to mom and dad.
Comment by kat — November 16, 2009 @ 11:53 pm |
Darby is heaven. She is so honest. I love how you and Matt have made it safe for her to express her feelings. All of them.
Bravo Wilsons!
Comment by Michelle O'Neil — November 18, 2009 @ 10:00 pm |
Another budding writer – it’s how we deal. Love Darby!
Comment by Brenda — November 19, 2009 @ 12:43 pm |